What does envy got to do with boundaries? Envy is a self perpetuating cycle. Boundary less people feel empty and unfulfilled They look at another’s fullness and feel envious . This time and energy needs to be spent on taking responsibility for their lack and doing something about it. Taking action is the only way out. You have not because you don;t make specific requests or you don’t do the work that is needed. We don’t just envy possessions and accomplishments. We can envy a persons character.
Proactive instead reactive . Proactive people show you what they love, what they want, what they purpose and what they stand for,These people are very different from those who who are known by what they hate , what they don’t like what they stand against , and what they will not do.
light not our darkness that most frightens us) Part of a quote from Marianne Williamson
Go for it! I want on my grave stone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others.
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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