I know this might seem late to look at completing your 2020 and I promise if you do the work you will THRIVE!
One way to get complete about 2020 is break your life up into a least 4 categories, I broke mine into 5. The first 4 are vital to get a sense of accomplishment.
- Business/career/finances
- Relationships/self/others
- Health and well being
- Physical Environment/home/work/friends
- Growth and Development
First off I want you to look at least at the first 4 categories and look at what you have accomplished in those areas even if you have not completed some things, you still accomplished things. Include small accomplishments and big, Do not minimize your accomplishments. So in each area, I want you to write down at least 2 things you accomplished you can write more. What can you celebrate? What made them a success, what didn’t work. I’ll give you some examples of my life
Business and career, I met a lot of new people and was asked to speak at summits and webinars, I was able to pay down some debt and I was able to earn more monies than I had expected. I also published my book and became a Best Selling author!
An example of what worked in publishing my book and becoming a Best seller author. I hired a team of coaches, a person who could teach me the process of publishing my book. A professional editor. Different people on my team that could have me win my game. I also called 220 people and asked them to help me on the day of my book launch. What didn’t work was not hiring people until the last min. What I learned from that accomplishment is that if you create team around you, you can cause miracles. Enroll a team in what you are up to and hire professional coaches that have experience in causing what you want and implement an trust what they say1
Relationships with self and others. I am creating a more harmonious relationship with my oldest daughter. I have met some very interesting people and started meeting a few men and going out for supper and coffee. I have not done that in years.
Health and well being I made several doctor appointments and am drinking 12 to 14 glasses of water daily. I also am walking an hour at a time at least 5 days a week.
Physical Environment/home/work/friends, I have hired someone to help me go through my stored boxes to reduce clutter. I am looking for a new place to live ground level and that allows sunlight in and pets that’s in my price range,
Growth and Development. I hired a virtual assistant to teach me technology and to do things for me that would save me time. I have also registered into several transformational seminars that I would not, normally enroll in and they will help me meet people that can support me in achieving some of my goals.
Begin by creating a list of things that are not complete. IN THE FIRST 4 CATEGORIES. Some things might not take long to complete and they are still not complete. List them. Do this with at least one other person so they get to look at their accomplishments and the things they said they would do that they did not do or did not complete. By doing it with one other person they may see things you accomplished that you have forgotten.
Most people are working from home now and I want men and women who raise children and do not have an outside job, to include raising kids as a career. DO NOT MINIMIZE THAT CRUCIAL JOB!
Now once you have the list of incompletions I want you to let the other person ask you four questions and you will answer them truthfully in one are that you say is not complete.. Stay with the questions till you have said everything you need to say. Then switch and let your partner pick an incompletion and you ask them the questions until there is nothing more for them to say. You may have to set aside two the three or more two hour sessions to do this work. Don’t stint on it you will not regret the time you spent on this
Questions
What do you need to say about this?
What do you need to hear about this?
What can you be responsible for around this?
What did I learn from this?
Then declare you are complete for now in this situation then move on.
This is how you can THRIVE and bring certainty in an uncertain time. When you are completing your list you might see that you are not going to do something regardless so Declare I’m not going to do this ever. Then things you will recommit to a time when you will complete them.
We can not create newly until we are complete.
We can bring clarity if we slow down, prioritize. Look at what we have accomplished. Look at what we have done and not done that we said we would. No judgement just fact finding.
If you want to experience accomplishment in your life, get complete.
Go for it! I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others.
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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