Altering How We Speak About Cancer #471a

I just got diagnosed, breast cancer. Lucky for me it’s in the early stages. I thought I’d share the journey with you. I’m feeling pretty optimistic. Number one to keep me upbeat and two to support others who are going through it so they know they are not alone and to get that CANCER is not a death sentence. Take the fear out of cancer.

I want to alter the conversation about cancer. How we talk about cancer Cancer is serious and it no longer means a death sentence. In fact, I have met many people who have released their cancer by doing it the western way, doing it naturally and doing part western and part naturally.

Once I was told to show up at the breast Cancer Clinic I talked to my older sister and created the possibility of Miraculous Vibrant Health.

This journey started innocently. I was shovelling snow on December 23rd and cracked my ribs. The Dr. took exrays and said it would take a few months to heal. Then in March, I cracked the ribs again, and I rescued a dog from being splashed on the road. Then four weeks ago I didn’t do much and my ribs cracked again. I told the doctor we needed to find out the source of my cracked ribs because I did not think that was normal. After blood tests and more X-rays, they finally decided to do a cat scan. I was surprised when my doctor called me and said do you have pain in your right side. I said no just my left. She said they found something on my right breast and the hospital would call me in a few days.

Five days later I’m playing at the park with my granddaughter and the hospital calls and says you need to come to the breast clinic tomorrow at 1:45. I was in shock, scared poopless. I called my sister right away and she said Wendy call a girlfriend and don’t go in alone. At first, I was like all my friends are busy blah blah blah. Then I called four girlfriends one was available and agreed to pick me up and take me to the hospital. The surgeon came in and said we don’t know for sure if it’s cancerous so we have to do some tests today. I was numb. They did the tests and asked me to come in the next day. I got my oldest daughter to come in with me the next day. The next day they told me I had cancer and they needed to do a biopsy to determine what kind of cancer. They set up a follow-up with the surgeon for a week later so the surgeon could explain to me what was going on. I was told I had cancer not sure what kind on Thursday. I was pretty numb and emotional and felt sorry for myself, scared etc for two and half days. Something altered on Sunday. I talked to two friends that had released cancer for 30 years. He was at stages 3 and 4 with two different types of cancer. The other one was stage 4 breast cancer. Both of them have released cancer and both have been free for years. I said I’m going embracing this cancering in my body and release it. I am not going to fight I’m releasing this totally from my body.

This is what I want to share. Never do a health journey on your own. Create positive people around you. Create a possibility that lights you up and gets you up in the morning. Live into that possibility and share it with everybody. The universe gives you what you ask for. Tell people what you need and want. I told people I do not want to hear your opinion. I want only good stories. I am not a researcher so I need people who are good at that to send me the links. I don’t want to go in overwhelm. So I only take stuff from people with reliable sources.

One girlfriend sent me a Lousie Hay audio by Dr. David Hamilton.. He wrote the book How Your Mind Can Heal Your Body.

I taped a recording of a 9 min visualization he does at the beginning of the audio and has been doing that visualization at least four times a day. Also, I’m listening to a video with Lynn Twist and Dr. Zack Back. I haven’t finished it and I will when I’m done I’ll share about it.

I’m creating 5 different teams so far. After surgery, I need people to stay with me for a week. So I’m creating a team of 3-5 people who can stay overnight and take care of my needs. I’m not allowed to drive for several weeks or more so I’m creating a team of 15 people I can call, surely one will be available if I need help. I’m creating a team of 7 people. One every day of the week I can call to clear my thoughts and support me to be positive and remind me to live in my possibility.

I am cutting back for the Month of August. The surgery is on August 2nd. I am getting all my papers in order and taking two weeks off totally after the surgery.

In the book How the mind can heal the body, Dr. David Hamilton shares an experiment they did They gave 50 patients the regular drug to take every day and 50 patients to take the placebo pill, sugar pill severy day for 3 months. The result was the ones that took the regular drug there was an 85 percent healing rate. For the 50 that took the placebo drug, there was an 80 percent healing rate, The Power of our mind. I find that fascinating.

If you want to join me on my birthday on July 22nd, 2022 here is the zoom link it is from 4-6 pm. pacific

If you want to come to the physical party it is Saturday, July 22nd, 2022 at Port Kells Park In Langley B.C.

Pot luck brink enough to share with 4-6 people. Be prepared to play. Children welcome. Horseshoes, bocci ball, water-balloon fights and more. Fun only allowed. Ha!

Go for it!  I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out!  What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking are in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted?  Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go the way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others?  What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others?
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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Wendy B
I support women when facing adversity to Reclaim Their Power bringing them more clarity, confidence, and joy. Also, I share my 40 years of experience of being a successful entrepreneur while raising two children who are now adults.

Wendy Bergen
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