Do you get stuck reacting to situations? If you are stuck reacting you won’t be effective and productive. What are you blind to that has you reacting? What are you being right about? What are you being unforgiving about? Can you distinguish a limiting barrier there? What new action could you take right now that could make a difference.? Are you willing to give the reaction up? What question(s) could you ask that would be more effective and productive? What are you committed to in that moment or in that situation?
Frequently I am committed to being peaceful and having a win,, win, where everybody is able to walk away with dignity and grace. In that moment if i’m not being peaceful i ask myself. Is this a habitual reaction to similar situations? Is this reaction limiting my effectiveness in producing the outcome i want? Are you willing to risk and take a new effective action? Are you willing to create a new and effective habit?
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Go for it! I want on my grave stone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others.
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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