What do you want people left with? People always remember how you make them feel. Before you speak let your words pass through three gates.
Is it True
It it necessary
Is it kind
Lots of times we come from our opinion and not the truth. Especially if we are reactivated or in a confronting situation. Do you say things that are not necessary? Where and when do you do this? Are you kind regardless of the circumstances or do you lash out? Take a look and see. These could be habitual patterns and barriers to your effectiveness.
Go for it! I want on my grave stone she burned out instead of rusted out! What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted? Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others? What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others.
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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