Expectations & Holidays #435

Expectations & holidays can lead to resentments. Try it out whenever you have an expectation, something should be a particular way. When it doesn’t go the way you want it to you get resentful. Mothers day is a holiday Try to remember whatever you focus on manifests. So don’t be attached to an outcome. You can make requests and then let people choose what’s best for them. Our children are God’s gift to us. We don’t own our children. It is our privilege to raise and guide them. As mothers, we do the best we can with the tools we have. We are not perfect, we make mistakes. Let our children celebrate us. Let us celebrate our children.

I usually work every holiday. I ask my children if we can celebrate after and they usually are fine with it. I love that my children want to hang out with me. It’s usually brief and then off they go to their other things. I don’t know about you but the biggest gift to me is your giving of your time and playing card or board games with me. Eating together and playing together.

Consider if you have an expectation and you get disappointed it did not turn out as you wanted. You had a premeditated resentment. I’ll let you ponder on that one.

Go for it!  I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out!  What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted?  Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go that way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others?  What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others.
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is  not useful! (wendy b)
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