The Plus Side of Failure #443

Without Failure, we can have no success. In my Experience Failure just means you failed to achieve the outcome you were striving for. In failing ask yourself several questions. What did you do that didn’t work? What could you do next time to either succeed or push yourself forward closer to success? What did you do regarding the situation that you could have NOT done? What did you say at the time, either to yourself or to others, that you could not have said? What did you not do that you COULD have done? What did you not say that you could have said?

When we fail to succeed to achieve a particular outcome we can learn from the failure or not. We do not have to suffer. Suffering is only one option. When we suffer it’s because we make failure mean something about us, about them, or about it. When we can take responsibility for all of the outcomes. I’m not talking about blaming here. I’m talking about the ability to respond powerfully to everything and anything that happens. It takes practice, practice, practice to learn to respond powerfully to everything and anything that happens. Keep trying until you succeed. Don’t stop. Don’t give up.

Go for it!  I want on my gravestone she burned out instead of rusted out!  What do you want them to say about you?
Ask yourself are your actions and speaking in alignment with what you are committed to? Look at what are the habitual patterns that have that commitment thwarted?  Are you willing to take responsibility for when it doesn’t go the way you want or the way you expected and clean up your part? Are you willing to let go of Expectations of yourself and others?  What are you not being truthful about to yourself and others?
Our thoughts can be like a junk drawer-we need to take inventory and get rid of what is not useful! (wendy b)
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