Do you want to thrive in this area? What questions are you willing to ask so you don’t waste their time and Yours? Do you know what your motives are? Are you willing to be honest and straight with yourself and others about them. Do you know what their motives are? Are you willing to ask them?
Do you know what your core values are? Do their core values match yours? If they do you guys might have a chance if not don’t waste each others time?
Do you want someone who is generous, loving, who you see is what you get? Or do you want someone who evades your questions, is a smooth talker but has no substance?
What are your habitual ways of being or patterns that might get in the way here of you thriving in this area?