Do you want to thrive in this area? What questions are you willing to ask so you don’t waste their time and Yours? Do you know what your motives are? Are you willing to be honest and straight with yourself and others about them. Do you know what their motives…
20. Do you allow others to contribute to you?
Have you ever decided that you wanted to do something and someone tried to change your mind? Did you ever get offended when they tried changing your mind? Have you allowed their ideas to change your mind or have you stuck to your guns and maybe missed out in allowing them…
19. Are you listening to your own triggers
Do we misinterpret what is being said to us because we are triggered by past incidents and we like being right about things? Have you every got off a phone call hurt, angry and annoyed and tried to figure out what really happened in the conversation to set you off? …
18. Righteousness
Are you being right about how someone is doing you wrong or has done you wrong? Do you find being right in a relationship regardless of if you are right or not can get in the way of you having a loving relationship? Do you find yourself arguing and fighting…
17. Are you taking care of yourself?
Do you find yourself putting your significant other, your children, your friends, your co-workers before taking care of yourself? Do you find you are saying yes to spending on someone else rather than yourself? Do you try to please someone else at the expensive of your well being? Do you buy the…
16. Are you complaining?
Do you complain about work, about your co workers, about your wife, your kids, not enough money? Do you complain about having to work out to keep in shape, about having to be so strict about your food intake? Do you let people annoy you? Are you willing to learn…
15. R you Smart enough???
Do you do the same thing over and over again expecting a different result? Do you have learning challenges or curves that stop you from moving forward? Do you fear new technology or fear that it is growing so fast you can’t keep up with it? Do you know we…
14. Who is in charge of your happiness?
Do you believe You? Do you ever feel like your work environment dictates how you feel? Your wife, your husband, your kids, your circumstances ? Do you know happy people have problems, they may even have sh–ty circumstances. Do you believe you are a master of your destiny? Do you ever…
13. Time heals almost everything
Have you ever experienced being mortified and thinking how can I live through this and years later you find out nobody really noticed or cared? Sometimes we loose loved ones. We don’t ever have to forget them we are not designed to forget people. Remembering, memories, grieving are all natural. …
12. What others thin of you is none of your business!
Do you walk into a room and get anxious because you worry about what people think of you? Do you get yourself all tied in knots so you can’t think straight? Do you say yes when you should be saying no because you want people to think well of you. …