Having Expectations is creating premeditated upsets. When we have an expectation for things to go a particular way we may be blind to missed opportunities. Its okay to want something to turn out. Just don’t be attached to the outcome. Some of my most enjoyable times in life were when…
Gratitude, Love & Expectations 344
The Fight Of Two Wolves Within You An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life: “A fight is going on inside me” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves.One is evil-he is anger, envy,sorrow,regret,greed,arrogance,self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority,lies,false pride, superiority, and…
Three Myths that can stop U from being productive! 343
Myth One : You can’t try anything new until you are knowledgeable. Not true I start six business over the years that I was not knowledgeable about and was successful at all of them. Myth Two: You can’t do it because you are afraid . Not true i was petrified…
Lets Get U Unstuck #342
Are you getting stopped? What is stopping You. Do you allow upsets to derail you. Maybe what is happening isn’t really happening. Consider you are an Upset waiting to happen. Consider that something from the past is triggering you right now and that is the source of your upset. WATCH…
Lets Get You Unstuck #2 (341)
We are either expanding or retracting our whole life! What are you doing? Are you playing a big enough game in life to insure that you are expanding? A game could be as simple as joining in a community project. Starting a community project. Be accountable somewhere so that you…
Lets Get You Unstuck #1 (340)
Do you find areas in your life where you are just not moving? How long has it been since you have been able to take effective action in that area! What are the conversations or thoughts in your head about this area? Are those thoughts the truth or are they…
What ever you resist persists!#1 (339)
Have you ever noticed that whatever you resists persists. If you resist being angry you get more angry. If you accept you are angry and just be with the angry the anger disappears. I invite you to look at different areas of your life that you are not being as…
There are no Guarantees! 338
We live our lives like there is always tomorrow but is there? One day you are talking to a friend and the next they you find out they were in a freak accident and are no longer with us. At any age this can happen. I invite you to live…
Altering Perceptions for the New Year! 337
This is a thought provoking poem . I want you to read it from top to bottom I’m very ugly, so don’t try to convince me that I am very beautiful person Because at the end of the day I hate myself in every single way And I’m not going…
Expectations! Do they cause upsets!#1 (336)
In Alanon we say an expectation is a premeditated upsets. several parts of an upset are, you have an expectation for someone or something to be different than it is. Your intention is somehow thwarted and you are left not communicating really whats needed to be communicated. I suggest if…