Podcast 333 Whats at the source of Your Suffering!

You cannot suffer the past or the future, they do not exist. What you are suffering is your memory and your imagination. Where are you suffering?  Is it happening this very moment?  take a good hard look.  All my life when i was suffering, it was because of the memory…

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Podcast 332 What Affects Effectiveness!

Effectiveness comes from being able to master altering your perceptions.  When we are stuck or suffering we frequently focus on the wrong thing,  the problem or the hurt.  That is why we stay stuck or continue to suffer.  If you focus on the lesson or the solution you will continue…

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Podcast 331 Are You Kind!

    What do you want people left with?  People always remember how you make them feel.  Before you speak let your words pass through three gates. Is it True It it necessary Is it kind Lots of times we come from our opinion and not the truth. Especially if…

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Podcast 330 Sacrifice can create Freedom

Remembrance day reminded me of this. My adopted dad was a war vet, he died in 2002.  It started making me think of the freedoms i have that i take for granted.  I have a lot of freedoms i enjoy because of the sacrifice of Thomas Perfetti and many i…

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Podcast 328 Attitude and Gratitude #1

Have you ever wondered how much being grateful can effect your ability to experience being happy and fulfilled in life?  Have you ever had conversations with people who have so little and they are full of gratitude?   Then you talk to people who are frequently annoyed and complaining about something. …

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Podcast 314 Relentless Determination!

Are you willing to keep going even when it becomes challenging to accomplish what you set out to do? Do you think you have to do all the work to have a result? Do you think you have to know things to accomplish things,   Are you willing to delegate, ask…

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Podcast 313 Is lack of Requesting keeping you Stuck!

Do you think you have to do all the work to have a result?  Are you willing to delegate, ask for help make powerful and sometime unreasonable requests of others to accomplish what is needed or wanted.  That is what powerful leaders do.  Look at Jimmy Patterson, presidents, CEO’s.  Do…

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Podcast 312 Is your Age keeping You Stuck!

Have you ever wondered why some things you say you are going to do never happen?  Take a look at what you are saying to yourself consciously or unconsciously.  Get a piece of paper and pen and write down two things you have repeatedly said you can’t do because of…

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Podcast 311 What Got you Stopped or Stuck#3

Have you ever wondered why some things you say you are going to do never happen?  Take a look at what you are saying to yourself consciously or unconsciously.  Get a piece of paper and pen and write down two things you have repeatedly said you were going to do…

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Podcast 309 How contribution can Enrich your Life!#1

Do you allow others to contribute to you?  Are you generous in allowing others to contribute to you or are you one of those people that won’t allow others to give to you.  You don’t want to feel obligated or you don’t think they can afford to help so you…

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